SINGAPORE BEAUTY BLOG LIPSTICK: MOMMA LOVIN’
While dollin’ up for our Instagram feed, I had the opportunity to chat with my girlfriend. She asked, ‘are you a ride or die kinda of chick’. It took me sometime to reply [insert: I was applying the lipstick my lips and it takes a minute to appreciate it].
I replied to her, “NOPE”.
Yeah I know, a man knows when his bae has his back and loves him unconditionally. But seriously though, I ain’t your ride or die chick because I will ask you tons of questions in no particular order;
Why do I have to fight for you?
Why will I live with you? Can you pay the rent?
Where do you live? Do you still live with your mama?
Do you have a job? No boo, I don’t accept ‘hustlin’ in the street to make money.
Before I’ll allow you to sleep with me, how many ladies you have slept before?
Why do we have to runaway from everyone? Do you owe them money?
I set my boundaries. I expect limitations and respect in my relationship. My standards in a relationship are non-negotiable. And I don’t mean standards by getting a rich baby daddy.
If you can’t fill out the questionnaire, then you can’t have me. I have questions and my love will always be conditional. I always believe that if you love someone, I shouldn’t feel unsafe, and I shouldn’t be too worried about our situation. It’s best that you’re honest with me and tell me about your past, your present situation and future plans. I don’t go with the flow kind of chick. I ain’t spontaneous. 😁
And I won’t do everything for you if my life is at risk, baby. If you are asking me to commit unlawful activities basically I’m not down for it. Why will I waste almost 4 years of studying law to be in jail. For what purpose, boo?
I think ladies shouldn’t be the “ride or die chick”. You have to set your boundaries. Don’t accept the unconditional relationship, you deserve to ask questions. You need to know things before you commit with someone. If your man can’t provide you answers because ‘he’s still on the process to understand the situation’ then ask him to get back to you when has the answers. 😁
After I replied to my friend, here’s my selfies using my Olympus Pen 10-D camera.
The Momma Lovin’ lipstick colour shade is peach, light red, light brown and semi-matte. You can wear it fo an everyday look.
My “let’s have a trip to Starbucks because I’m all doll-up today” look. 😉
Here’s the brown colour. I love it because it doesn’t give me much attention. I can wear it in the office (or even just a Starbucks date with my boo boo). It’s nude. Very nude. 😉
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